Archive for the ‘Books’ Category

The Butterfly Effect

Monday, October 11th, 2010

Have you ever wondered if your life matters?
If you have then Andy Andrews has an answer for you and it’s a resounding “YES,it does!”




In the beautifully written The Butterfly Effect: How Your Life Matters, Andy Andrews lays out exactly how every decision we make intentionally or unintentionally affects not just our lives but also the lives of others.

For the longest time I avoided reading The Butterfly Effect because I wrongly believed it was some complicated scientific mystery but fear not,it is a very simple theory and the author does a very beautiful job of breaking it down in the simplest form possible.There is absolutely nothing scientific about this book but it will have you thinking real hard before you make your next move.

The Boy Who Changed The World

Thursday, October 7th, 2010

Can one boy change the world?
Why ofcourse he can,if you believe the wonderful book by Andy Andrews aptly titled The Boy Who Changed the World




This is a beautiful children’s book with clear illustrations and a story thats very easy to follow.
It reminded me of the days back when children’s books actually had a moral at the end of the story and I know you will be very happy with the lesson at the end of this story.
Don’t be surprised if this book quickly becomes your child’s favorite and you have to read it to them 20 times each day before bed…and trust me,that won’t necessarily be a bad thing because it means they get to hear the positive lesson in this tale 20 times each single day!

You Changed My Life

Tuesday, October 5th, 2010

There is no better compliment in life than someone revealing to you that whether knowingly or not,you changed their lives.I can think of a few people who have changed my life but the one person I keep coming back to over and over again is my mother.Every single stage of my life,she’s been there with a story to tell, a word of encouragement and sometimes just a hug or a smile and I can say without a doubt,she has changed my life.Her words have changed my life.Her actions have changed my life.I’m blessed to not only have her as a mother but as a friend too.




The holiday season is fast approaching and I know just the perfect gift for that special person who has truly changed your life…give them a copy of Max Lucado’s incredible book: You Changed My Life: Stories of Real People With Remarkable Hearts. True to the title,it’s filled with heart warming stories of regular folks just like you and I who changed people’s lives for the better with just a few words and actions.

This is by far the best Max Lucado book ever in my opinion and trust me when I say the person you give this to will treasure it forever.It’s a very inspiring and uplifting book and Lord knows we could all use a little uplifting these days.

How to Become a Man in 224 Pages or Less

Tuesday, July 13th, 2010

Before anyone panics and dials 911..NO..I am not planning on having a sex change and becoming a man.
I love being a woman too much
But I’m raising a son so A Guy’s Guide to Life: How to Become a Man in 224 Pages or Less is a book I was definitely interested in reading so I could get some insight into my little boy’s mind as he approaches teenhood and eventually manhood.



I love the catchy title and the conversational tone of the book.
I love how the author isn’t preaching but it always feels like he’s seated right next to you having a heart-to-heart about various subjects that pertain to making the transition into a man.
Will you as a reader turn into a man after 224 pages?No.
Will you have a deeper understanding of how the male mind works sometimes?Sure.
A Guy’s Guide to Life: How to Become a Man in 224 Pages or Less is a well written book I would recommend for ALL parents with boys and for ALL boys looking for direction as they tackle this whole manhood issue.
Growing up can be a tad overwhelming so consider this book your fantastic,positive cheat sheet!

Plan B

Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010

Pete Wilson is a funny guy. He is also a very smart guy. It doesn’t hurt that’s he’s cute too but all that has absolutely nothing to do with his wonderful book called “Plan B – What Do You Do When God Doesn’t Show Up The Way You Thought He Would”.

That is a very tough question to answer simply because we grow up believing that God always shows up when we call Him. I mean, the guy is omnipresent so surely He has to appear when and how we need Him, right? Well, right and wrong. Does God always show up? Yes He does but (you knew there was a but in there), He doesn’t always show up in the way YOU want Him to show up or think he should show up and that’s exactly what Pete Wilson explores in his totally awesome book “Plan B”.



In the book, Pete Wilson gives real life examples of situations where God was present but not in the way the individuals wanted Him or thought He would show up. It’s frustrating but the bottom line is God was there, the whole time. I can relate to this because there have been occasions in my life where I expected God to show up in one way and He didn’t. Was I disappointed? That’s putting it mildly.

I questioned Him, I even yelled at Him but the funny thing is everything worked out just fine at the end of the day so I’m slowly learning to say “you know what God, this doesn’t make sense but I know you’re working your tail off somewhere in this situation and at the right time you will not only reveal yourself to me but you will reveal the lesson I’m supposed to take away from all this”. It hasn’t been easy trusting God and I’m a constant work in progress but I’m getting there and I know without a doubt that once you read “Plan B – What Do You Do When God Doesn’t Show Up The Way You Thought He Would”, you too will have renewed hope that even in your darkest moments God has not abandoned you, He is working tireless behind the scenes, maybe not in the way you want Him to work but He is there with you every single second.

Friendship for Grown-Ups

Tuesday, June 1st, 2010

I confess; I’m a terrible friend. I never reply emails immediately. I very rarely pick up the phone to call anyone unless I absolutely have to and when I do pick that phone up, I’m on it for a few minutes and then it’s good bye. It’s not that I don’t care about my friends, I do. They mean the world to me but when I call someone I always think they are busy and I’m interrupting them so in my head I tell myself I shouldn’t call in the first place. I actually once spent an hour debating whether to text someone. I know – very pathetic and I ended up not sending the text so that’s an entire hour of my life totally wasted. I will never get it back.

I guess that’s why I could in a way relate to Lisa Whelchel’s “Friendship for Grown-Ups : What I Missed and Learned Along the Way”. I can totally relate with her insecurities when it comes to opening up to friends and I feel her pain when she discusses ending a friendship and the betrayal that comes with knowing a confidante spilled your secrets to everyone with two working ears.



My only beef with this book is that Lisa Whelchel paints herself so much as a whinny victim that it gets down right annoying at times. I have zero tolerance for people who play the victim card and in “Friendship for Grown-Ups: What I Missed and Learned Along the Way”, Lisa uses it excessively. Nevertheless, I did read the whole book from cover to cover and I expected a lot from it honestly but it didn’t quite deliver. It’s an okay effort from a rather smart and strong woman.

Walk Like You Have Somewhere To Go – Lucille O’Neal

Sunday, April 11th, 2010

I know Shaquille O’Neal.
Not personally but I’ve seen him play a few times and I know about his beef with Kobe Bryant, the alleged affairs that supposedly drove him to parting ways with his wife and all the details that emerged about him in his messy divorce. I also know and really love his comedy specials. I probably know more about Shaq than Lucille O’Neal would like me to know.

Who is Lucille O’Neal?
Excellent question. I had no clue who she was either until I picked up Walk Like You Have Somewhere To Go.
Normally I wouldn’t care what a wealthy pro-basketballer’s mother had to say but something about Lucille O’Neal tag “my journey from mental welfare to mental wealth” had me curious so I dived in.

Lucille’s story is humbling.Its entertaining.Its inspiring.
I can guarantee that you will find one thing in her book that you can relate to.
You can’t help but root for her when you read the first few chapters of the her book and by the end,you’ll be on your feet giving her a standing ovation for all she has accomplished.
I could point out a whole bunch of things that impressed me about Lucille O’Neal’s life story but I especially liked the part where she gained self confidence and learned to stand up for herself.
I just added another heroine to my growing list of women I admire and her name is Lucille O’Neal.